Comments on: The Updated “Drop Them Cold” Experiment http://handylifeadvice.com/the-updated-drop-them-cold-experiment/ Life Advice That Won't Get Out of Hand. ™ Wed, 13 Apr 2011 02:58:03 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Jaymeze http://handylifeadvice.com/the-updated-drop-them-cold-experiment/comment-page-1/#comment-25 Jaymeze Wed, 13 Feb 2008 08:38:57 +0000 http://handylifeadvice.com/?p=32#comment-25 Heh, I find my reply to be funny since it does come from a guy that caught his own fiance cheating. But you win some and you lose some in life. My consolation turns out to be very simple. The saying goes "To every action there is a consequence", and along the same line I say "To every relationship there is a risk." Looking deeper into my statement I realize that in order to find out if the relationship partner is "the one" for you, then you also have to put in all your time, soul and heart into the relationship. Or else you will never find out if that person is it for you. Accept the risk and go forth boldly knowing that you will give it your all, and if the other person does not reciprocate then you know he/she is not the one for you. Love is a risk, take it! In therapeutic treatments there are always some drawbacks, but the benefit outweighs the risks in all cases of relationships. Heh, I find my reply to be funny since it does come from a guy that caught his own fiance cheating.

But you win some and you lose some in life. My consolation turns out to be very simple. The saying goes “To every action there is a consequence”, and along the same line I say “To every relationship there is a risk.”

Looking deeper into my statement I realize that in order to find out if the relationship partner is “the one” for you, then you also have to put in all your time, soul and heart into the relationship. Or else you will never find out if that person is it for you.

Accept the risk and go forth boldly knowing that you will give it your all, and if the other person does not reciprocate then you know he/she is not the one for you.

Love is a risk, take it! In therapeutic treatments there are always some drawbacks, but the benefit outweighs the risks in all cases of relationships.

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