Loading ...Drop Them Cold: The Dating Experiment
I’m sure many of you out there have heard of this dating technique called ”drop them cold.” The technique plays on the psychological principal that the uncaring date will turn their attitude around when they realize that they are about to lose someone that they have taken for granted.
You’ve seen it time and time again in those chick flicks. The guy gives all his heart for the majority of the movie to some girl that takes him for granted. Then, the guy leaves for good and that’s when the girl realizes that she made a mistake and comes running back. This happened to one of my friends in real life. He pursued this one girl like there was no tommorrow. That girl was utterly annoyed and got what she wanted, which was for him to leave her alone. Well, after a few months, guess what happened? That girl came back more appreciative and responsive because she realized how horrible life was without him.
Ok, so I am probably going to get some readers riled up about this technique because they will think that I am playing games and trying to manipulate chicks. Well, to rebute that statement, I think it is fair to play games since girls do that just as much as guys do. With that said, I think it is time to even up the score.
This is the experiment that I will update at a future article. Basically, there is this girl that I have known for almost 4 years now. I pursued her like no tommorrow too and she knew how I felt about her. But after asking her twice she still would not give me a chance. So I dropped her cold since this past September. Her birthday is this weekend and I am planning not to email, text, call, mail a card or give her a present. I have done something for her each of the last 3 birthdays so she knows that I know what day her birthday is. Stay tuned to see how this techinque did for me.
Saga To Be Continued…
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Tags: dating advice, psychology, taken for granted, techniques
