Of course we can’t be everything to everyone. We must also be ourselves or else we will come across ask fake or unnatural. But hey, dating should be a fun-filled activity and I hope the guidelines I have provided in this book can help you with your date.
Remember that there are always different degrees of [...]
An Analyzer’s worst idea of a date:
HEY! HOW’S IT GOING, BABY! YO! TONIGHT IS GOING TO BE A BLAST! WE ARE HEADING TO THE HOTTEST CLUB IN TOWN TONIGHT WHERE THERE WILL BE LOUD MUSIC, EXCITEMENT, AND A CHANCE TO LET YOUR HAIR DOWN AND PARTAAAYYYYYYY! THERE’S GONNA BE SO MANY PEOPLE THERE TONIGHT. MAN, [...]
A supporter’s worst idea of a date:
OK. This is our plan for the date tonight. First, we go to the movies. I have arranged it so that you won’t waste time traveling, lining up and hanging around the area. We are moving fast so once the movie is finish, we will rush to the restaurant [...]
A controller’s worst idea of a date:
Hi, darling! It’s so good to see you! Oh, about tonight, don’t worry. You don’t need to do a single thing. I have chosen everything for you. The food I have ordered for our date tonight, it is fixed so you don’t have to decide what you want to [...]
A promoter’s worst idea of a date:
Um, hi, err…I have got our entire outing thoroughly planned out for tonight, ok? First, we will come over to my place where we will be watching documentaries on the developments of the decades, and then we will head over to the restaurant nearby to have a meal. The [...]
Now that we have a good idea how we behave, we must remember that the categories above apply to different people at various degrees. The descriptions above define generally what those groups of people have in common. A person with the more extreme style will display those characteristics more pronounced.
We must move on to the [...]
An analyzer is a type of person who uses a methodical problem solving method approach to life. They tend to lean more towards good ideas, complex concepts and intriguing solutions rather than towards feelings. They also like study and analysis of the topics they are interested in.
When it comes to making decisions however, their knowledge [...]
Supporters are very good friends. They are very casual and likable people that would go all out to please others. They are the peace makers. They tend to minimize conflict with other people.
When it comes to making decisions, they let generally let others make the decisions and will rarely turn down the request. They may [...]
Controllers are typically people whom others perceive as a very active, independent, self-confident and results oriented kind of person. He or she may appear to be bossy at times or even disregard other people’s feelings when it comes to getting things done.
They are very forceful and strong willed and may tend to take charge of [...]
Promoters are people with strong social skills. They are very good at winning over people, crowds, even enemies. They enjoy being in the lime light.
A promoter will always be eager to please others especially if they give them attention for their outgoing, friendly ways. They also enjoy the recognition from other people and generally get [...]